The other day, a friend and I were discussing how easy I have it with Brandon when it comes to clothing. He has to wear a uniform to school Mondays through Thursdays, and on Fridays they are optional. He’s at an age where he likes to pick out his clothes, but ultimately I have final say. This morning, for example, he knew he didn’t have to wear a uniform, and wanted to wear his new Thomas the Train t-shirt. I told him that he could wear a Thomas shirt, but it would have to be his old one because he might have art activities at school, and does he really want to mess up his new shirt so soon? He said no and put on the older shirt without complaint. I know that once he’s a bit older, this could become a bigger issue. He’ll want to establish his own identity, like other kids do. I would prefer he dress in character tees for just a bit longer, but I know it’s inevitable that he’ll grow up and want to develop his own sense of style. I don’t have a problem with it, but I draw the line at clothes that are three sizes too big and pants hanging off his rear end. I hope that trend is long gone by the time he’s picking his own clothes, and that it doesn't resurface when I face this potential dilemma all over again with Matty.
Posted by Amanda at August 31, 2007 2:55 PM | TrackBackEven at almost 11, and me only a "step," I still get final say in what RTY wears. There are those in her life who insist on buying her 5lutty clothing that no little girl should wear. I overrule those clothes (and then they curiously disappear in the laundry).
Posted by: wRitErsbLock at August 31, 2007 3:12 PM